Hai all,
wahh.. hari ni baru dapat buka blog, pheww.
I am a bit late updating my blog, well better late than never la kan... Hehhee... dah jadi missus ni most of my free time will be with Soulmate, or housework.
Hmm.... housework and chores, aiyahhh.. for someone who is too lazy to wash her own cloth, I have to wash 2 sets nowadays, breakfast at office has change to breakfast at home...
Anyway, i am blissfully happy now... to my happily ever after. It has been a long journey. The blog is written as diary for my path on getting married, the good experience, the bad one or funny experiences.
Readers that are getting married themselves, Good luck! and enjoy your journey, your very own trip-to-bliss. Singletons, do enjoy being single (and not having to worried about mak andam/ fotog/ duit-duit-duit!!) and 'smug-married' (*ahemm.... kita enjoy!) hahahhaa.....
Haa.... Alhamdulillah, syukur kepadanya, we are married. I hope my marriage will forever be bless by Him, hopefully we will stay together sampai bila-bila and one day have children and granchildren... (hihihih) InsyaAllah, with all your prayers and well wishes.
I will leave this blog just as the way it is. And remove it one fine day.... But frett not, I will continure reading your blogs too.
Happy new year 2009 everyone, semoga segala azam dan cita2 untuk tahun baru nanti tercapai dan sentiasa diberkatiNya.
Thank you.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Sunday, January 4, 2009
Pendaftaran nikah, tsk.. tsk...
It's Monday and I'm on EL. Hehhehe....
Hmm... actually i'm taking EL to settle the nikah thingy. Tok Kadi called last week to inform that he cannot nikahkan I at home. Yes, he CANNOT nikahkan. How bad was that?
His reason was... I am supposed to register under Shah Alam, not Klang. So he cannot enter into other's teritory.
Ok, but the real story was, i have went to Shah Alam to do the registration. The Officer have a look at my IC then said, "Awak kena register kat Pejabat Agama Klang, bukan sini". Ok fine, so yadda yadda i settle my registration at Klang and the Klang's Officer did not question me. And so i thought settle la kan?
But last week Tok Kadi called and conveyed the bad news. I was so suprised! and thought, ini dugaan from Tuhan.
So on Friday i was busy calling-calling. Asking my ustaz of kursus kahwin, calling pejabat agama and so and so. long story cut short, this morning i managed to iron out the issue and....
I AM GETTING MARRIED THIS SATURDAY AT HOME!! Yahuuu... hahaha :D
So to celebrate that, i went to Bukit Raja for shopping and bought myself new pair of jeans... hiasan2 for the wedding, shoes for my sis, story books and, a laundry basket. Yelar... I'm staying with my mom after this. Takkan baju masih nak mak tolong basuh.. eheh. My new resolutions to be a good wife lar ni.
Ohh.. I am such a goody-goody.. **hikss...
A lot have been done last weekend, baju nikah dah siap, all those knick-knacks and favors dah beli dah. Tomorrow i'm still working and the day after. Then Soulmate and I will be on leave until next week's Wednesday.
Future updates, this Thursday Soulmate and I nak pergi fitting baju untuk my reception nanti and terus angkat baju tu nanti. Friday, collect cuppies, sirih junjung, fruits and go for henna. Pelamin also akan dipasang on Friday.
Saturday? Can't wait for that special day :)
Hmm... actually i'm taking EL to settle the nikah thingy. Tok Kadi called last week to inform that he cannot nikahkan I at home. Yes, he CANNOT nikahkan. How bad was that?
His reason was... I am supposed to register under Shah Alam, not Klang. So he cannot enter into other's teritory.
Ok, but the real story was, i have went to Shah Alam to do the registration. The Officer have a look at my IC then said, "Awak kena register kat Pejabat Agama Klang, bukan sini". Ok fine, so yadda yadda i settle my registration at Klang and the Klang's Officer did not question me. And so i thought settle la kan?
But last week Tok Kadi called and conveyed the bad news. I was so suprised! and thought, ini dugaan from Tuhan.
So on Friday i was busy calling-calling. Asking my ustaz of kursus kahwin, calling pejabat agama and so and so. long story cut short, this morning i managed to iron out the issue and....
I AM GETTING MARRIED THIS SATURDAY AT HOME!! Yahuuu... hahaha :D
So to celebrate that, i went to Bukit Raja for shopping and bought myself new pair of jeans... hiasan2 for the wedding, shoes for my sis, story books and, a laundry basket. Yelar... I'm staying with my mom after this. Takkan baju masih nak mak tolong basuh.. eheh. My new resolutions to be a good wife lar ni.
Ohh.. I am such a goody-goody.. **hikss...
A lot have been done last weekend, baju nikah dah siap, all those knick-knacks and favors dah beli dah. Tomorrow i'm still working and the day after. Then Soulmate and I will be on leave until next week's Wednesday.
Future updates, this Thursday Soulmate and I nak pergi fitting baju untuk my reception nanti and terus angkat baju tu nanti. Friday, collect cuppies, sirih junjung, fruits and go for henna. Pelamin also akan dipasang on Friday.
Saturday? Can't wait for that special day :)
Friday, January 2, 2009
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
From Saigon with love
I'm not in the mood because for trillions time of promises my nikah dress is not ready yet. sigh. sigh. sigh. This time Mrs Tailor promises Friday evening. I am not putting any hope. Let's wait and see.
On top of that i'm experiencing mood swing. Could be PMS. My menstrual cycle is unpredictable... so i guess it will be anytime soon. Soulmate dah kena 'hentam' banyak kali because of this syndrom. and he never understands it, i did not do it on purpose. Blame the hormone. I AM SO SORRY DEAR, seriously. huuu, praying hard it won't come out on the wedding day itself. please. please. please...
Anyway, today is 1st January 2009. I have no plan for outing.. just laze at home. Then my aunt drop by. She just came back from Saigon and she bought me goodies for the wedding.
On top of that i'm experiencing mood swing. Could be PMS. My menstrual cycle is unpredictable... so i guess it will be anytime soon. Soulmate dah kena 'hentam' banyak kali because of this syndrom. and he never understands it, i did not do it on purpose. Blame the hormone. I AM SO SORRY DEAR, seriously. huuu, praying hard it won't come out on the wedding day itself. please. please. please...
Anyway, today is 1st January 2009. I have no plan for outing.. just laze at home. Then my aunt drop by. She just came back from Saigon and she bought me goodies for the wedding.
*Bags for guest on the akad nikah day... all the way from Vietnam. *
Mak Long also bought me something from Saigon. A lovely embroided telekung.
Mak Long also bought me something from Saigon. A lovely embroided telekung.
On top of that, Achik also brought along gifts for the VIPs. Her friends made them. Very nice i would say... sayang nak give away, hehhehe :p
And the best part, i have bought my own pair of wedding shoes. hehhehe... me likey! Thou it burn a hole in my pocket, tsk.. tsk... i'm truly satisfied. The hill got designs like.. erm, erm, i dunno how to explain lar. oh well, and the color matched perfectly with my skin tone... and wedding dress of course. but the pic is a bit dark.. my bad, forgot to snap it under the light :p
And the best part, i have bought my own pair of wedding shoes. hehhehe... me likey! Thou it burn a hole in my pocket, tsk.. tsk... i'm truly satisfied. The hill got designs like.. erm, erm, i dunno how to explain lar. oh well, and the color matched perfectly with my skin tone... and wedding dress of course. but the pic is a bit dark.. my bad, forgot to snap it under the light :p
Inviting Ex?
Mom was asking whether i invite my ex to my wedding.
HELL NO!
Of course you don't invite an ex boyfriend to the wedding. I can't imagine how would i feel if Soulmate invited his ex girlfriend. Well... there i one. They are merely friends. But... well ya, it depends on your friendship with the person. if there is ANY awkwardness between you two, then no. no offense is meant by saying no. it's a case by case situation. That was just my opinion. if you all are cool with it then invite him. if not no biggie. hehhehe...
Personally, no matter how good my life is and how happy I am my ex was a dick and I want to be surrounded by family and people I care about at my wedding. That would exclude him :p
HELL NO!
Of course you don't invite an ex boyfriend to the wedding. I can't imagine how would i feel if Soulmate invited his ex girlfriend. Well... there i one. They are merely friends. But... well ya, it depends on your friendship with the person. if there is ANY awkwardness between you two, then no. no offense is meant by saying no. it's a case by case situation. That was just my opinion. if you all are cool with it then invite him. if not no biggie. hehhehe...
Personally, no matter how good my life is and how happy I am my ex was a dick and I want to be surrounded by family and people I care about at my wedding. That would exclude him :p
In less than 2 weeks...
My singledom will be over.
How would I describe what I'm feeling right now? Honestly, rather listless. I don't know if you could attribute it to having all the energy put into preparing for the wedding, then feeling a close to an anti-climax as the date nears. But I'm sure things will be different in the coming days.
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